April 2011
35 posts
Yes, this: “For me, it’s not that I want apathy, just privacy. To be noticed, but not interrupted. It’s comforting to be seen in our grief, there is a confirmation in it — however awkward it makes us feel.”
I don’t always read Modern Love - usually only if someone tells me to. This week someone told me to.
This is a quick, sweet, and totally worthwhile read. Especially for those of us lucky enough to have amazing and supportive mothers.
This part particularly struck me:
“At her lowest point, my mother spent a full day on the laundry room floor, slumped against the washing machine, unable to move. The severity of my situation had consumed her. Her heart had broken so severely that her body and mind broke, too.”
A few years ago, I was crying to my mom over the phone about something. Let’s be a real - it was probably over a boy. And she told me that if it was possible to take my pain, and make it hers, she would do it. I’ve never forgotten that.
#springjamz